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The Basics of Public Speaking
Let’s Get Off to a Great Start
Speech Structure
Impromptu Speaking
Eye Contact
Selecting a Topic
Preparing a Speech
Speech Impacters
Visual Aids
Good Speech Attributes
Body Language
Speech Outlines
Vocal Variety
Mind Maps to Prepare a Speech
Being the MC  
Introducing the Speaker


 

GOOD SPEECH ATTRIBUTES

The following attributes will assist in quickly putting your audience at ease.  They are attributes irrespective of the substance of your message, the words you say and the structure of your speech.  These attributes will give you a head start no matter what your message is and how well it is articulated:

  • Appropriate dress
    - A well-dressed speaker will inspire an audience
    - Dress to impress but not to intimidate

  • An introduction prior to the presentation.
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    Introduce yourself to members of the audience prior to your presentation.  The presentation becomes more personal.  You don’t have to be Mr/Ms Personality to do this.  Think of a non-threatening way of meeting them eg stand at the door as they arrive and hand them a program / business card / a welcoming smile.  Perhaps you could be writing out the name-tags as they wait.  Idle chat starts while this occurs.
     

  • Confidence
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    Keep speaking and working on your Public Speaking technique.  This will improve confidence.  Ask different people to evaluate you and give feedback.
     

  • Authority / Credibility
    - Be introduced so your credentials are known.  Self praise is no recommendation so write your own introduction and give it to the MC.  This will help the MC and you are more likely to be introduced as you would like.  Before addressing an intimidating audience is no time for false modesty.
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    Speak with an air of authority (however not the knower of all).
     

  • Don’t appear rushed, troubled or stressed ie the positive, half glass full approach, no complaining type.
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    An audience doesn’t like to see a mirror image of themselves.  Like watching a film, they want some escape from reality.
     

  • Enthusiasm / Passionate / Appears to like what he/she is talking about.
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    An audience finds it difficult not to be inspired by this quality.
     

  • Sincerity / Genuine Concern
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    Again, an audience finds it difficult not to be inspired by this quality..


  • Source: www.youthsspeak.com.au